YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR FUTURE

 

“And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.” (Romans 12:2)

It is important to take time to re-focus our lives and be open to change. Our view of personal goals and commitments is blurred by life's interactions and the uncertainty of the future. We need moments when we can take a step back and after a time of rest and reflection, we are able once again to live life with purpose, with a clearer focus on God's plan and purpose for our life.

With the beginning of a New Year we often make New Year’s resolutions. What we are saying is that we see a need for change and that can be a good thing just so long as God is behind the change. We are notorious for starting and not finishing New Year’s resolutions but when the need for change is born of God He will help us until it’s completed. Let me suggest three reasons why you should consider making some New Year’s resolutions.

First, we all need changes. Some changes we find very hard to admit to ourselves. But there is a great power in confession to ourselves, to God, and to others. Facing up to our failures is the first painful step on the road to something better.

Second, when we change calendars it is also a good time for reassessment. How did last year go? What do I want to do differently this year? This time of year always reminds me of a passage of scripture, “Break up your unplowed ground and do not sow among thorns” (Jeremiah 4:3). It makes sense. The more land you put into production, the more prosperous you'll be. But some of us are stupid enough to try to sow seeds in land overrun by weeds without breaking up the soil and taking care to root out the weeds as they come up. Call it laziness or Call it stupidity. Let me ask you a serious question. What percentage of your life is producing something of value? How much "unplowed ground" do you have that needs to be broken up in 2014 and made useful? The beginning of a new year is a good time for reassessment.

Third, New Year's is an excellent time for mid-course corrections. Sure, we might fail in what we set out to do, but if we fail to plan, as the old saying goes, then we plan to fail. If you're so fearful of failure that you never set goals, you're not very likely to do very much. Failure is not the end. For the person who determines to learn from it, failure is a friend. You want to talk about failure look at the Apostle Paul. Throughout his life he was opposed, persecuted, shipwrecked, stoned and left for dead, deserted by trusted co-workers, slandered, and scorned. Sometimes it seemed that projects to which he had devoted years were turning to dust right before his eyes. But he was unwilling to quit: “Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 3:13-14). No wonder he made a mark on his world. He stopped looking back, and looked forward instead. He didn't let the fear of failure keep him from trying again.

Don’t be afraid to change. You can change your future just so long as you don’t resist change! The main reason why people resist change is fear; fear of failure, fear of rejection, fear of loss and fear of the unknown: “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind” (II Tim. 1:7). People resist change because they are content and satisfied with the way things are. Most of us want to stay on the mountain top of yesterday’s victory instead of going on and growing up. You never grow up on the mountain top but only in passing through the valley of change: “When they walk through the Valley of Weeping, it will become a place of refreshing springs. The autumn rains will clothe it with blessings. They will continue to grow stronger…” (Psalms 84:6-7).

Some people resist change because they don’t understand what God wants to do in their lives. They can see no personal need for change or they don’t see any benefit for change. Habits and traditions will hinder change. Failure to leave our comfort zone will minimize changes and transformations in our lives. No one has ever done it this way before is a common complaint of people who refuse to change because of tradition or habit.

As we move into the New Year let’s ask ourselves the hard questions and focus on the purpose of our lives and be open to change. Regain your focus on the purpose and plan in your life. With God’s help you can change your future.